Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Selfishness

Let say your friend do something which in turn makes you feel really irritated, just feel like want to punch him/her on her face. But of course, you don’t have all the nerves to do that because he/she is your friend, moreover he/she may one of your close friend. What makes the state even worse is that you also don’t have the strength to advise him/her, as you don’t want to make him/her feel tense against you. For the very reason like, “Oh, we’ve known for more than 5 years”, “It is his/her natural habit”, “I always get used to it” and blah blah blah to satisfy your ownself. Of course he/she has his/her own kindness towards you, but in the other hand he/she is being selfish in his/her own way. Don’t be proud yet, if you think that you are good because you think you are not selfish. In contrast, you as his/her friend is even more selfish for not to advise and correct him/her. Well, maybe it is because of your ego? Think about it..

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